{"id":6333,"date":"2020-08-18T12:44:17","date_gmt":"2020-08-18T12:44:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.adfaber.org\/?p=355"},"modified":"2020-08-18T12:44:17","modified_gmt":"2020-08-18T12:44:17","slug":"pandemia-scoate-la-iveala-latura-sireata-a-copiilor-aplicatii-interzise-telefoane-de-unica-folosinta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/adfaber.org\/en\/pandemia-scoate-la-iveala-latura-sireata-a-copiilor-aplicatii-interzise-telefoane-de-unica-folosinta\/","title":{"rendered":"Pandemia scoate la iveal\u0103 latura \u0219ireat\u0103 a copiilor: aplica\u021bii interzise, telefoane de unic\u0103 folosin\u021b\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Pandemia scoate la iveal\u0103 latura \u0219ireat\u0103 a copiilor: aplica\u021bii interzise, telefoane de unic\u0103 folosin\u021b\u0103<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Izola\u021bi din punct de vedere social \u0219i plictisi\u021bi, copiii g\u0103sesc c\u0103i de a trece de controlul parental de pe dispozitive; exper\u021bii spun c\u0103 p\u0103rin\u021bii abordeaz\u0103 gre\u0219it situa\u021bia.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Amy Rivers suspecta c\u0103 ceva este \u00een neregul\u0103 cu fiul ei de 14 ani c\u00e2nd acesta a \u00eenceput s\u0103 doarm\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 mai t\u00e2rziu dec\u00e2t de obicei. A presupus c\u0103 se juca noaptea pe Nintendo Switch, \u00eens\u0103 mai t\u00e2rziu a observat c\u0103 vechiul ei iPhone lipsea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00centr-o noapte a intrat \u00een camera lui \u0219i a v\u0103zut c\u0103 b\u0103iatul ascundea ceva sub plapum\u0103. Era vechiul ei telefon, care \u00eenc\u0103 func\u021biona cu Wi-Fi. Fiul ei crease un nou Apple ID pentru a avea acces f\u0103r\u0103 restric\u021bii la Snapchat \u0219i pentru a desc\u0103rca aplica\u021bii care s\u0103-l ajute s\u0103-\u0219i fac\u0103 noi prieteni acolo. \u201eErau sute de copii care comunicau la 2 noaptea \u0219i spuneau lucruri complet nepotrivite\u201d, spune ea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L-a \u00eentrebat de ce se furi\u0219eaz\u0103. I-a r\u0103spuns c\u0103 se simte singur. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Copiii au fost mereu cu un pas \u00een fata parin\u021bilor c\u00e2nd vine vorba de tehnologie, \u00eens\u0103 acest lucru s-a accentuat \u00een timpul pandemiei coronavirus, c\u00e2nd se lupt\u0103 cu timpul liber \u0219i izolarea social\u0103. P\u0103rin\u021bii au povestit despre copii de 6 ani care se trezesc \u00een mijlocul nop\u021bii pentru a vedea seriale sau a se juca pe dispozitivele adul\u021bilor. O mam\u0103 spune c\u0103 a trebui s\u0103 ascund\u0103 telecomanda \u0219i dispozitivele electronice din cas\u0103 \u00eenainte de culcare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Exper\u021bii sunt de p\u0103rere c\u0103 ar fi de folos ca p\u0103rin\u021bii s\u0103 se implice \u00een jocurile \u0219i experien\u021bele sociale ale copiilor. Astfel, pot \u00een\u021belege mai bine ce \u00eei motiveaz\u0103, iar pentru copii devine mai greu s\u0103 se furi\u0219eze.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Un subiect de interes pe un grup de Facebook al companiei de monitorizare online Bark este utilizarea telefoanelor \u201ede unic\u0103 folosin\u021b\u0103\u201d de c\u0103tre adolescen\u021bi. \u00cen timpul carantinei, compania a observat o cre\u0219tere de 10% \u00een alertele primite de p\u0103rin\u021bi pentru profilele de social-media create de copii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

O mama spune c\u0103, \u00eenainte de pandemie, \u00ee\u0219i mai prindea ocazional b\u0103iatul treaz la ore t\u00e2rzii, juc\u00e2ndu-se pe calculator, \u00eens\u0103 programul lui \u00eenc\u0103rcat de \u0219coal\u0103 \u0219i sporturi nu \u00eei oferea prea mult timp de pierdut online.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Mama afirm\u0103 c\u0103 niciodat\u0103 nu i-a pl\u0103cut Snapchat din cauza con\u021binutului inadecvat pe care l-a v\u0103zut pe contul lui, chiar dac\u0103 era vorba doar de 15 minute de utilizare a aplica\u021biei pe zi. Dup\u0103 ce l-a prins cu telefonul vechi, i-a spus c\u0103 are voie s\u0103 le trimit\u0103 un snap prietenilor cu care comunica \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eei anun\u021be c\u0103 va p\u0103r\u0103si aplica\u021bia \u0219i pot discuta prin sms. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

O alta mama a blocat Youtube pe laptopul fiicei ei de 8 ani,, \u0219i a setat ora 21 ca or\u0103 de stingere prin contul de Google Family Link. Dar c\u00e2nd so\u021bul ei a venit recent acas\u0103 din tura de noapte \u0219i a intrat \u00een camera fetei, a v\u0103zut-o dormind l\u00e2ng\u0103 laptopul aprins. Feti\u021ba descoperise c\u0103 dac\u0103 intr\u0103 pe laptop ca \u201eguest\u201d \u00een loc s\u0103 foloseasc\u0103 propriul cont, poate sc\u0103pa de controlul parental. (utilizatorii laptopului pot dezactiva accesul de tip \u201eguest\u201d.) <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Feti\u021ba le-a spus p\u0103rin\u021bilor c\u0103 se uita la show-uri de g\u0103tit p\u00e2n\u0103 t\u00e2rziu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Exper\u021bii spun c\u0103 e de \u00een\u021beles c\u0103 cei mici au devenit a\u0219a de \u0219ire\u021bi cu tehnologia. Mai mult dec\u00e2t at\u00e2t, p\u0103rin\u021bii sunt vinova\u021bi par\u021bial. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eCred c\u0103 principala problem\u0103 care exista \u00eenc\u0103 \u00eenaintea pandemiei este c\u0103 am abordat gre\u0219it timpul petrecut online de copii. Este un obicei care ne-a r\u0103mas din tinere\u021be, c\u00e2nd ni se spunea c\u0103 televizorul proste\u0219te.<\/em>\u201d spune Michael Rich, directorul Centrului Media \u0219i pentru S\u0103n\u0103tatea Copilului de la Spitalul de Copii din Boston. \u201eAm v\u0103zut tehnologia ca fiind gre\u0219it\u0103 sau corect\u0103, bun\u0103 sau rea. Trebuie s\u0103 fim con\u0219tien\u021bi de ce fac copiii online \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eei \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m cum s\u0103 foloseasc\u0103 tehnologia \u00eentr-un mod eficient, nu s\u0103 fim detectivi \u0219i s\u0103-i control\u0103m \u0219i s\u0103 le interzicem ce sa fac\u0103, pentru c\u0103 se vor revolta \u00een mod natural.<\/em>\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Cum pot p\u0103rin\u021bii s\u0103 fac\u0103 asta? Dr. Rich \u0219i al\u021bi exper\u021bi afirm\u0103 c\u0103 secretul este s\u0103 utiliz\u0103m tehnologia al\u0103turi de copiii no\u0219tri. Iat\u0103 c\u00e2teva trucuri:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fii tu elevul.<\/strong> Primul instinct c\u00e2nd cei mici ne spun c\u0103 vor s\u0103 joace un anumit joc sau s\u0103 foloseasc\u0103 o aplica\u021bie este s\u0103 spunem nu – \u0219i s\u0103 lu\u0103m dispozitivul dac\u0103 descarc\u0103 ceva f\u0103r\u0103 permisiunea noastr\u0103. Dr. Rich \u0219i al\u021bi exper\u021bi spun c\u0103 asta nu \u00eei va face pe copii dec\u00e2t s\u0103 caute alte modalit\u0103\u021bi de acces. \u00cen schimb, p\u0103rin\u021bii ar trebui s\u0103 joace respectivul joc sau s\u0103 exploreze aplica\u021bia al\u0103turi de copil, l\u0103s\u00e2ndu-l s\u0103-i explice cum func\u021bioneaz\u0103 \u0219i de ce e important. S-ar putea s\u0103 afli c\u0103 ei se joac\u0103 acel joc cu \u00eempu\u0219c\u0103turi (cu care tu nu e\u0219ti de acord) nu pentru c\u0103 le plac \u00eempu\u0219c\u0103turile ci pentru c\u0103 asta se joac\u0103 \u0219i prietenii lor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cenva\u021b\u0103-i s\u0103 g\u00e2ndeasc\u0103 critic<\/strong>. C\u00e2nd ai \u00een\u021beles jocul sau aplica\u021bia, po\u021bi discuta cu cel mic despre ce te \u00eengrijoreaz\u0103, cum ar fi comentariile inadecvate ale altor juc\u0103tori sau violen\u021ba, \u00eentreb\u00e2ndu-\u021bi copilul cum \u00eel fac acele lucruri s\u0103 se simt\u0103. Exper\u021bii spun c\u0103 discu\u021biile prietenoase cu copilul despre ceea ce experimenta\u021bi \u00eempreun\u0103 \u00eei ajut\u0103 s\u0103-\u0219i dezvolte g\u00e2ndirea critic\u0103. Obiectivul: c\u00e2nd copilul t\u0103u va vrea o nou\u0103 aplica\u021bie\/un nou joc, va veni la tine \u00een loc s\u0103 se furi\u0219eze de team\u0103 c\u0103 vei spune nu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sugereaz\u0103 alternative.<\/strong> Dac\u0103 \u00eenc\u0103 nu e\u0219ti de acord cu jocul sau aplica\u021bia, Dr. Rich spune c\u0103 \u00eei po\u021bi sugera alta care s\u0103 \u00eei ofere acelea\u0219i beneficii. Dac\u0103 \u00eel atrage lucrul \u00een echip\u0103 \u0219i socializarea, sugereaz\u0103 un joc de baschet online unde copiii pot forma o echip\u0103. \u00ce\u021bi po\u021bi \u00eencuraja copilul s\u0103 fie el liderul \u0219i s\u0103-\u0219i conving\u0103 prietenii s\u0103 \u00eencerce un nou joc \u00eempreun\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ofer\u0103-i c\u00e2te pu\u021bin.<\/strong> Dac\u0103 la\u0219i un tort \u00eentreg \u00eentr-o camer\u0103 cu un copil, tortul s-ar putea s\u0103 dispar\u0103 \u0219i copilului s-ar putea s\u0103 i se fac\u0103 r\u0103u. Mai bine \u00eei oferi o felie. Acela\u0219i principiu poate fi aplicat tehnologiei. O alt\u0103 mama relateaz\u0103 cum fiica ei de 13 ani voia TikTok pentru a fi la curent cu videoclipurile din trending atunci c\u00e2nd poveste\u0219te cu prietenele ei. \u00cen loc s\u0103 \u00eei dea voie s\u0103-\u0219i descarce aplica\u021bia, mama a instalat-o pe propriul telefon pentru a se putea uita \u00eempreun\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eCu c\u00e2t te \u00eempotrive\u0219ti mai tare, cu at\u00e2t \u00ee\u021bi \u00eendep\u0103rtezi copilul mai mult<\/em>\u201d, a spus ea. \u201eAsta nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 renun\u021bi la toate regulile \u0219i \u00eei la\u0219i s\u0103 fac\u0103 orice vor.<\/em>\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Sursa: https:\/\/www-wsj-com.cdn.ampproject.org\/c\/s\/www.wsj.com\/amp\/articles\/pandemic-brings-out-kids-sneaky-side-forbidden-apps-burner-phones-11591695001<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cite\u0219te \u0219i: 5 cele mai des \u00eent\u00e2lnite pericole \u00een mediul online. Sunt copiii \u00een siguran\u021b\u0103 pe internet?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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